How Emotional Turbulence Affects First-Born Daughters.
Firstborn Daughters don’t have it easy. They're likely to experience gas lighting, belittling of their emotions, involuntarily losing their childhood and more.
Hey Fluffy Life,
Firstborn Daughters: let’s talk!
You might not know it, but your birth order can affect your relationships' emotional dynamics.
Firstborn Daughters face early pressures that can impact their relationships later in life - like being expected to help their siblings with homework while receiving minimal homework themselves.
However, it’s more than merely doing physical tasks around the home. There’s an immeasurable emotional labor eldest daughters are expected to do. They’re expected to wipe the tears of their younger siblings, deal with their temper tantrums, and clean behind them to keep the home tidy.
These experiences create a dynamic where Firstborn Daughters become adults and often:
Continue to raise their brothers and sisters and act as a spare parent and sacrifice their income to advance their siblings education.
Become overly judgmental of themselves leading to becoming perfectionists and beating themselves up at the slightest mistake.
Obsess about everything and overthink to the point of giving themselves anxiety.
Are high achievers because they focus on finding fulfillment through academic and professional accomplishments over everything.
Parent their siblings and sacrifice having the experiences to develop emotionally and more…
In my Relationship Hut course, we learn how to foster a deeper understanding of the potential link between birth order and emotional instability within relationships, especially for firstborn daughters.
With this immersive course, you will get access to our exclusive community of eldest children on a similar healing journey. Plus, you’ll learn new methods to cope with and overcome any trauma and resentment from sacrificing your childhood to be a caretaker.
So, what are you waiting for? Spots are limited and registration is closing soon!
~ The Emotions Doctor
P.S. My upcoming course is a great way to meet others who might be going through similar struggles as you and have a safe space to begin healing.