They want to beat me

Dear, first-born daughters,

Why have you been disturbing my peace?

The way you people have been pressing my neck via dm,

Do you want to beat me?

You guys have been bombarding my DM requesting to book discounted heart-to-heart sessions with me.

You have been requesting for some form of “I see you” discount, since you carry the weight of the world but are often ignored.

You guys are bullying me oh. Well, here I am honoring your pampering request, “Dear first born daughters”. To book a heart-to-heart session with me at 40% discount, please click

The slots are on a first come-first served basis please, and if you allow other children like middle children and last borns steal your slots, you are on your own.

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I am aware that first-born daughters often face unique challenges and pressures due to their position in the family. I also created multiple videos on Youtube specifically for first born daughters and hundreds of viewers have reached out to thank me for “Seeing and understanding them”. If you missed the sessions, here is the recording,

Part of what I discussed in the sessions include,

The Eldest Daughter Syndrome

This concept describes a set of common experiences and challenges faced by first-born daughters, including:

1. Perfectionism

2. Anxiety

3. Identity challenges

4. Relationship problems

5. Self-esteem issues

6. Lack of support

Responsibilities and Expectations

First-born daughters often:

• Take on mini-caregiver roles early in life

• Help with younger siblings and household chores

• Offer emotional support to parents

• Feel responsible for everyone else's happiness

• Struggle to prioritize their own needs

• Have difficulty setting boundaries

Emotional Impact

The eldest daughter role can affect emotional well-being:

• Difficulty expressing feelings openly

• Tendency to bottle up emotions

• Increased risk of anxiety and stress

• Challenges in setting healthy boundaries

Societal Expectations

First-born daughters often face additional pressures:

• Unwritten rules about nurturing and caretaking

• Expectations to put others first

• Balancing personal ambitions with family responsibilities

To address these challenges and how they disturb your relationships, friendships, personal and professional life, please book your heart to heart session with me here now.

I will NOT HONOR this discount request again, so if you need to speak with me to help remove the emotional cobwebs and pain as a first-born daughter, please lock in your slot now. I know middle children and last-borns will descend on the slots now, if you allow them steal your 40% discount then you snoozed.

See you at the vulnerability spa.

Welcome home.